In the music world, every now and then a song emerges and stirs up discussions and controversies.
As was the case with “Seven,” Jung Kook’s new single “3D” caught public’s attention. With bold and provocative lyrics and an open approach to sexual attraction, the artist chose to address a topic that is sensitive in the world of K-pop, igniting debates.
The frankness of the lyrics and its importance
“3D” lyrics are straightforward, and leave little room for ambiguity. This may have contributed to the controversy that has surrounded the song since its debut. However, in my opinion it is important to remember that through this song, Jung kook has chosen to express himself and his emotions in a sincere way.
Sexual attraction is a natural aspect of life, and art is a medium through which we can explore such issues.
The normality of physical attraction and “3D” message
The desire for physical contact is an inherent part of human nature. “3D” merely reflects this reality. In the world we live in, where technology separates us physically but connects us virtually, the song speaks of a deep desire for physical connection and shared sensory experiences. It is a reminder of the normalcy of physical attraction.
The importance of freedom of artistic expression
The controversy that arose after the release of “3D” seems to reflect kind of a widespread hypocrisy in society.
Although we all, one way or another, feel physical attraction to someone, for many it is surprisingly easy to openly judge artists like Jung Kook when trying to explore this natural dimension of being human through music.
I think it is crucial to reflect on the fact that many times we ourselves experience sexual attraction to idols while consuming their contents. It is clear that among the artists’ intentions also lies the will to elicit these reactions in their fans. In this context, denying the existence of attraction and the desire to fulfill it – on both sides – becomes a hypocritical attitude.
Jung Kook is an artist and a conscious adult and has the right to express his emotions as he sees fit. Criticism and judgment should not obscure his freedom of artistic expression.
In the K-pop world, artists are often presented as asexual, innocent figures, perennial Peter Pan’s-a misleading image that may very well not reflect the idols’ personal reality and create in fans a desire for artistic expression that does not reflect their true nature.
K-pop artists, beyond their public image, are individuals with their own ideas, emotions, and desires. Music is a medium of personal and artistic expression, and idols should have the right to communicate what they feel without having to censor themselves or conform to pre-packaged standards.
This freedom is crucial for the growth and development of artists and the creation of authentic and meaningful works.
I am not innocent, I know everything, and now I am 26 years old! Wouldn’t it be weird if I were innocent? I like alcohol, I play hard when I play and work hard when I work.
(Jung Kook)
The dispute on the “ABG” slang term
The song received mixed reactions, mainly due to Jack Harlow’s verses. The line “All my ABGs get cute for me” raised several controversies. The term “ABG” has been the subject of debate, especially among some Asian descent’ fans, claiming that Harlow used it in a derogatory way.
ABG is a slang expression (particularly prevalent in California) that identifies young Asian women in stereotypical traits such as excessive makeup, tattoos, skimpy clothes, long nails, normally seen at raves, parties, and clubs. However in online debates, Asian fans themselves have somehow defended this term, saying it has been reclaimed and adopted by many Southeast Asian girls as a symbol of rebellion against stereotypes.
Consensus
An important aspect to note in the song “3D” is the sensitivity and respect which is glaring in the artist’s approach to physical attraction.
Jung Kook shows special attention to his partner’s consent when he sings “so if you’re ready & if you’ll let me.” This phrase is a clear indication of his desire to communicate openly but consensually about his attraction, never implying a sense of ownership or entitlement over the person he is interested in.
The context of Jack Harlow’s sentences
On the other hand, Jack Harlow’s words, particularly the phrase “okay, now you are selling out” may seem controversial at first reading. However, we must consider the context and intention of this statement. Here, Harlow is clearly referring to himself and his libertine conduct.
Contrary to some of the controversy, Harlow is not, in my opinion, labeling women as “prostitut*,” but is simply speaking of his personal experience and desire to freely experience sexuality.
The call to female pleasure
You will not regret me
champagne confetti
I want to see it
This passage aroused considerable curiosity and amazement on social media. The locution “Champagne confetti” contains a clear reference to female ejaculation, with parallels between the way champagne leaks out when opening a bottle and the release of bodily fluids during a female orgasm.
While this may seem like a bold choice, it is important to note that it is a slang term used by many hip-hop representatives such as Lil Wayne, Jay-Z, and Nicki Minaj.
In recent years, this metaphor has found its way into different music genres and is a testament to the desire to explore sexuality in a creative and open way.
Jung kook’s choice to use lyrics that address issues related to female pleasure is of considerable importance. This open approach contributes significantly to the normalization of women’s experiences and desires related to sexuality, and helps to eradicate the taboos and discrimination to which female pleasure is often subjected.
The importance of levity
While discussions can be important to explore different perspectives, it is equally crucial to allow ourselves the pleasure of listening to music without worry and let it take us to unique emotional and sensory places.
In “3D,” Jung Kook explores sexual attraction in a direct and honest way. I believe it is important to simply let go and listen to music lightly, allowing emotions and sensations to flow spontaneously.
Every song can offer some form of gratification, even through messages as simple and direct as sex.
Conclusions
Each of us has the right to express our opinions about a song, even though we may not like its content, but condemning “3D” for its open approach to sexuality seems anachronistic.
Music is a medium for expressing emotions and feelings, and Jung kook has chosen to do so in a bold and sincere way, thus demonstrating his personal growth and ability to make informed decisions in his work.
I have a question for all of us: is it really necessary -or correct – for idols, adult people, to continue to portray an image of “cotton candy and unicorns”?
Brief general thoughts
The quest for freedom, so coveted for ourselves but often limited when it comes to our bias/idols, requires deep reflection. Many fans tend to selfishly desire kind of a monopoly over the image and lives of their idols, often imposing an unrealistic and puritanical view on them. This results in controversy even over common aspects, such as the presence of female dancers on stage, manifesting a distorted view of artists’ personal growth and normal sexual urges. This pressure can force idols to live their profession in an unsatisfactory and perhaps suffering way, with the constant fear of offending their fandom. It is important to recognize that idols are individuals with private lives and legitimate sexual desires.
We must finally grant them the freedom to be themselves, to express themselves and to live fully.
Only then we will be able to share an authentic relationship.
